Confusion attacks.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
"When one door closes, another opens
but we often look so long and
regretfully
upon the closed door that we do not see
the one which has
opened for us."
So true, right? Sometimes, we get so attached with the past that we don't want to move on. We are so focused on the past that we fail to see what lies ahead. We don't want to open our hearts to these changes. Pride holds us back. Or maybe, we'll open them, but not now. We're waiting for the right time. But how will you know if the right time has come?
Ewan. Siguro dahil din sa takot natin ulit masaktan. Takot tayong masaktan for the same reason. Nakakatrauma kasi, dba? We have this mindset that history repeats itself. Takot ulit tayo magtiwala. Takot na baka masira lang ulit ito. Hindi pa tayo handa ulit sa panibagong challenge lalo na kung sariwa pa ang sugat. Or di kaya, di natin inaasahan na mangyayari ito. Expectations hurt. Especially when these people dear to you failed to meet your expectations. Di mo inaasahang mangyayari ang isang bagay kaya pag ngyari na iyon, iiwan ka na lang nitong nalilito. Nagtataka ka kung bakit iyon nangyari. Pero sabi nga nila, we should learn from our mistakes. Be responsible. Or maybe, pwede ring we should learn from the bitterness of the past. Sometimes, feeling natin huli na ng malaman natin ang dapat natin malaman. Ang daming pagsisisi na nangyayari. Tinatanong or sinasabi natin sa sarili natin, "What could have been...", "If only..." "How I wish...". You know, those lines that speak of regret.
Pero change doesn't happen overnight. It will take time. Hindi kailangang madaliin ang sarili. Tsaka kaya nga nandyan ang Diyos, pamilya at kaibigan diba? Para tulungan ka.
Ang gulo ba? Parang ewan. English tapos biglang tagalog. Di ko alam kung ano gusto ko iparating sa post na ito. Wala na ring konek yung quote sa taas dun sa explanation ko. Wala rin sa isip ko ang dahilan kung bakit ako nagdradrama. Magulo isip ko eh. Pabago-bago rin mood ko. Sorry.
Sana hindi pa huli ang lahat.
Confusion attacks.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
"When one door closes, another opens
but we often look so long and
regretfully
upon the closed door that we do not see
the one which has
opened for us."
So true, right? Sometimes, we get so attached with the past that we don't want to move on. We are so focused on the past that we fail to see what lies ahead. We don't want to open our hearts to these changes. Pride holds us back. Or maybe, we'll open them, but not now. We're waiting for the right time. But how will you know if the right time has come?
Ewan. Siguro dahil din sa takot natin ulit masaktan. Takot tayong masaktan for the same reason. Nakakatrauma kasi, dba? We have this mindset that history repeats itself. Takot ulit tayo magtiwala. Takot na baka masira lang ulit ito. Hindi pa tayo handa ulit sa panibagong challenge lalo na kung sariwa pa ang sugat. Or di kaya, di natin inaasahan na mangyayari ito. Expectations hurt. Especially when these people dear to you failed to meet your expectations. Di mo inaasahang mangyayari ang isang bagay kaya pag ngyari na iyon, iiwan ka na lang nitong nalilito. Nagtataka ka kung bakit iyon nangyari. Pero sabi nga nila, we should learn from our mistakes. Be responsible. Or maybe, pwede ring we should learn from the bitterness of the past. Sometimes, feeling natin huli na ng malaman natin ang dapat natin malaman. Ang daming pagsisisi na nangyayari. Tinatanong or sinasabi natin sa sarili natin, "What could have been...", "If only..." "How I wish...". You know, those lines that speak of regret.
Pero change doesn't happen overnight. It will take time. Hindi kailangang madaliin ang sarili. Tsaka kaya nga nandyan ang Diyos, pamilya at kaibigan diba? Para tulungan ka.
Ang gulo ba? Parang ewan. English tapos biglang tagalog. Di ko alam kung ano gusto ko iparating sa post na ito. Wala na ring konek yung quote sa taas dun sa explanation ko. Wala rin sa isip ko ang dahilan kung bakit ako nagdradrama. Magulo isip ko eh. Pabago-bago rin mood ko. Sorry.
Sana hindi pa huli ang lahat.